If you’ve ever witnessed an Indian wobbling his head,
You’ve probably wondered “was that a yes or was that a no“? OR
Perhaps you thought there’s something wrong with that neck
while he viscously nodded to your speech?
Author: Megha
Writer, Blogger, Indian by Origin, Living in Netherlands.
The Habit of People Pleasing
There is a fine line between being nice and being a people pleaser. Do you realize when you’ve leaped your boundaries to make someone happy? Do you know, when to say “NO”? Can you stand […]
My Top Five Reads since 2019
I realize, I’ve been reading but haven’t been writing about the books I’ve read so far. That does no good, considering the short term memory I have. 🙄 So last weekend, I spent some time […]
What went on in that School Assembly
I had a crazy dream last night. I was delayed to the school assembly. I was running to the entrance gate but they shut it on my face. I had nothing to do and nowhere […]
A little (Over)weight
I’d always been a chubby kid. I don’t reckon a skinny version of myself. (except for maybe a short span in my twenties, when I stayed in a dorm. Food was plenty but inedible). I […]
The Conundrum of Indian Marriages
There never has been enough clarity on why marriages are a big buzz in India and the latest addition on Netflix portraying “arranged marriages” adds more to this confusion. I hated the show (although I […]
The Perks of being Judgemental
😈
1. You get a chance to self reflect
2. The world owes you for your charitable framework
and more [..]
Shark Bite(s)
This probably is the weirdest thing I’ve ever tried. Fermented shark. (still recovering from its memory) Back in 2019, on our trip to Iceland, (me & my spouse) discovered this local specialty in Reykjavik [..]
Happiness is a Myth
Happiness is unreal. Our own instincts are designed against it. There are thousands of books on the topic of Happiness. The self help industry is basically obsessed with this subject. Happiness is not a natural state of our minds. If it were, why would we need to learn to be happy? [..]
In the name of God
Disclaimer : This post neither preaches nor condemns any religion or the existence of god. It merely tells my own short story, in my own words. So, don’t leave hateful comments. I am very sensitive. (Just gulp it down on a lighter note!) [..]
Are you being overly defensive?
Have you been in a situation before where you came out defensive? Did someone set your alarms off or did you bring up your shield even before the attack occur? Were you called overly emotional […]
Why I don’t want to go to Eiffel (anymore)
When I moved to Europe, travelling to Paris was on top of my check list and Eiffel tower was a “Must See”. I’d seen umpteen classics with Eiffel tower set in the background, a beautiful […]
What is it like to be around “Resentful People”
Disclaimer : This is not a self help article , so don’t be worried about getting any free advice. 😛 If you are looking for some, you are better off reading LinkedIn posts that offer […]
How was my First experience of seeing the Northern Lights
(Original photo – Sep 2019) In September 2019, my dream to see the Northern lights was fulfilled while I was in Iceland for a nine day trip. For those who do not know, the Northern […]
Finally I’ve finished this 1000 pages book
In the beginning of March, when Covid 19 had not become a phenomenon yet, I bought this bestselling book on suggestion of my spouse. He read this book when he was young and it left […]
My First Experience of IKEA
Welcome to the world of IKEA The first time I visited IKEA, I remember spending the whole of my Saturday in the IKEA store. Those beautiful preset designs for each room filled my head with […]
This Summer – The Crow Collection
Usually, I write about my opinions and experiences. Sometimes, grave and sometimes funny. But this post takes a very different route as I feel creative this week. So tune in your expectations while I take the creative liberty [..]
I wouldn’t have known North Korea without this Book
Few years back, if you were to ask me about North Korea, I would tell you – it’s just some country in East Asia. I didn’t know then about the totalitarian regime in North Korea and how distinct it was from South Korea. Neither did I know, how life in North Korea differed from rest of the world. [..]
One Month of Blog Promotion Misery
the Beginning OF SOMETHING WEEK 1 : Welcome to my BLOG Facebook, here I come! The starving members of the groups saw my post as an opportunity to advertise their own blogs. Nobody cared what […]
I’ve been to the House of Dracula
Growing up, I watched umpteen horror shows, each portraying a different flavor of Dracula.Sometimes they were blood sucking bats,Sometimes Vampires and Some times just monstrous undead.I always wondered – “How we came to believe in […]
My Tale of Productivity
One morning, I woke up to my iphone notification. A screen popped open and I saw a report of my week long productivity. It displayed my screen time and categorized my usage neatly. On an average , each day, it declared, I was fruitful for barely a few minutes. And shamefully, that number was lower than the previous week. [..]
How I spent four years in The Netherlands
Europe has always amused me as a child so I was really excited when my boyfriend (now spouse) asked me to join him in Netherlands. I was young, in my 20’s (head over heels in love), and quickly agreed to move to Netherlands..[..]
‘C’ for Coronavirus
I was shopping in the market,when they all flee,Saying, “death by coronawill come to thee”I stopped by my friend,who would not see meSaying, “We are quarantined,My wife and me”So, I sat down in a restaurant,But […]
God save humanity!
Close to 75000 species become extinct every year. This is nearly 1000 times the natural rate. (Thanks to the human intervention). We have 8.7 million species today. At this rate, all of them will be […]
Why things go wrong at work?
Do you wonder why things are not looking good at work? Why does your hard work not pay off proportionally? Why is it that Tom, Dick & Harry got promoted while you are stuck here […]
What was it like to visit Auschwitz?
If you haven’t heard of Auschwitz, Imagine a slaughter house (not for animals, but for humans). Imagine a place where millions of Jews were confined for years, tortured to death by hard labour, thirst, extreme […]
Why I stopped watching the News?
Sunday night news, everyone in my family was watching it except for me. I watched news occassionally earlier but only recently have I started despising it. In times of pandemic when everyone is stuck in […]
My first read in 2019 glued me to books again!
Back in 2019, that feeling of emptiness kicked in. I had a well paying job, good work life balance, a loving family, good health but I kept wondering if this is it? Will I keep […]
